I haven't had a relationship for ten years, since I lost my husband and father to my children. Recently I've met someone I really like, in fact I haven't felt this way about anyone since I met my husband. He has also lost a partner who was the mother of his child, to whom he is a full-time dad. When I heard this, my heart went out to him.
I met this man at an addiction counselling course, which I have no doubt will set up alarm bells with some of you. Yes, he is a drug addict, but he's been really trying to get his life together, not least because he is a single dad to his daughter. I went to the counselling course because I have a drink problem, in that I don't need to drink but I am a persistent binge drinker. I think perhaps if we made a deal for me not to drink and him not to take drugs (which he usually doesn't), we may be able to sort our lives out.
I'd like a bit of advice on how to approach this, as he's just come out of a relationship which was a real "no no" - I know about it because I was friends with the woman concerned.
I would like to be friends with him however this turns out, because I actually really like him as a person.
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judeb1969 · 02/08/2015 01:35
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