Met my DP on Match 2 years ago. We are crazy about each other, looking at moving in together in the next few months.
He has three daughters- a 17 year old, 13 year old and a 8 year old. He was with their mum for 23 years- she left him for another man 5 years ago. That broke off about 3 years ago and she had a breakdown- drinking, drugs etc and it was decided the kids would live with their dad full time.
I get on really well with his youngest two- but his oldest daughter outright despises me. Verbal abuse, throws things at me, refuses to be in the same room as me for prolonged periods of time and there have been times when ive had things go missing or theyve gotten broken.
Ive tried everything- talking to her, avoiding her, trying to get involved in things shes interested in, buying her stuff i know she will like. she wont tell us what the problem is
This has been going on for just over 18 months. I havent got a clue what to do other than give up and break it off from my DH.
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Thinking of leaving my partner because his daughter despises me
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