With my mum. So many reasons but today I've reached my limit after discovering that she has also failed to protect my siblings from s/abuse for her pathetic need for 'love' and money. I can no longer carry on pretending and I need to build a safe wall around myself and my family now.
But she lives v close and is still heavily involved with my siblings so this will be tricky. I do not wish to fall out.. involve the rest of the family etc, I simply wish to let her know that we will no longer be part of one another's lives and I want her to respect this and leave me alone. Quietly.
I've typed it up (I cannot face another face to face conversation in which she rewrites history and then asks me to forgive) as I want it over with, like a plaster. I only hope she has the dignity to exit my life as requested quietly.
But I'm hovering over this send button worrying about the consequences. I know it's the right thing to do. But I'm .. not scared. Exhausted and apprehensive of what may lie ahead.
A hand to hold.. some words. Something. . I dunno. Thanks.
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moooolah · 30/07/2015 18:47
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