I will try to keep this brief.
DP and I have been together three years.
We met when we were both ending our previous finished relationships (important because my ex had met someone else who he is now married to and my DP ex is now living with her new partner) although we were both still living with our exp both the relationship had ended.
My exp left the home, DP left his home and eventually moved in with me after staying in digs for a while.
DP was marred for over 20yrs and naturally his exp wants his stuff gone (3 years is long enough plus her new partner now lives with her) however apart from clothes he has no belongings at my house and refuses to consider blending belongings stating space as the reason.
Now he has a new job starting soon 250 miles away!
In my mind I would be treating it as working away from home, just having accommodation there and his home here but he is rushing around planning a new flat, how to move his belongings there etc pretty much setting up a new life there.
Am I over reacting or have I just been used for three years?
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