I don't know what to do. My DH wants to kick our DD(16) out.
They have had a difficult relationship for a couple of years and he has said previously that he wants her out to both her and me. To me this is not going to happen which I have said repeatedly.
Last week there was an argument and he ended up locking her out telling her not to come back and then going to bed. I stayed up, unlocked the door and tried to find her but I couldn't. Eventually received text from her saying she was staying at someone's house. Next morning he left for work before I was up and then went straight away for the weekend. He didn't get in touch to see if she was ok.
When he got back I was angry with him and asked why he didn't get in touch. He said he thought she was back and he wanted her out anyway. I haven't spoken to him since. I have heard him telling her this week that he doesnt want her here or to leave.
I don't know where to go from here. We also have another DD(11) who adores him but this situation can't continue. Apart from this I would have said that we had a good relationship. I am fairly sure that he won't leave so it would be me that has to leave with the girls and this would cause my youngest DD a lot of distress.
DD's behaviour, whilst challenging at times, in my opinion is not that bad although they do wind each other up.
Also it is his birthday today and I'm feeling bad that he's spent it not being spoken to.
Apologies for the length of this but I just want some advice.
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DH wants to kick DD out
pleasegivemeadvice · 25/07/2015 17:43
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