I just wanted to post to reinforce the advice always given her about how inappropriate couple counselling is when there is any form of abuse.
A friend of mine agreed to go to couple counselling with her violent ex to see if they could get back together again or at least work out something good for bringing up their child. He has a very lovely side to him and is a loving father to their daughter.
However after starting the counselling all his worst side started to come out again and a couple of weeks ago he was violent once again. The counsellors have minimized this behaviour asking my friend what she did to provoke the attack, for example, and criticising her for objecting to him spying on her phone and social media. So now they are both much worse off than before they started counselling
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Atenco · 08/07/2015 05:09
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