I split up with my ex just over 18 months ago (after some very wise advice here and finally realising he was very controlling and treating me very badly)
We were not married. No children. Together for 12 years and he is on the deeds for the house. He's been living with his new girlfriend for just over a year now, I've recently got agreement from the bank to have the mortgage in my name and have instructed a solicitor to take ex off the deeds. He's happy with this, it was his idea as he wants off mortgage.
However, even though we have agreed what he is taking from the house and I have agreed times he can come and collect things (he's still storing a lot here as he's selling it) he keeps coming back at other times and taking additional things. ( This sounds really petty written down. )
If I challenge him I get "I haven't signed yet..." or he denies things have gone, or says they never existed.
My solicitor is on holiday till next week. I know I can't change the locks but can I leave my key in the front door and use the back instead (he doesn't have a key for that). Could he just break in? And what do I do when he kicks off?
I'm so close to this ending but the stress is getting to much :-(
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DoingBetterNow · 07/07/2015 21:13
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