Background - together 3 years. We have a 2.5 year old and a 9 month old.
I'm not happy, we don't have sex, constantly sniping at one another. I feel he minimises greatly my role in the household - I do all cooking, cleaning, childcare while he works full time. In every argument he likes to remind me that he I the one working, bringing money in etc. He also says I'm common, rough, single mum material etc. I know this makes him sound awful but I honestly don't think he is a bad man. He is very popular, has a lovely family etc and I fantastic with our children.
I am not a saint, I have a short temper and say nasty things when I'm angry. (like I don't love you)
Anyway, I just think we are not happy.
As I have no income, I'm terrified being on my own - nowhere to go and no money.
Due to go uni this year in Sept. Would I be unreasonable to plan to leave then when I have a bit of finance behind me (generous living allowances)
I guess I already know I'm being unreasonable as it feels a bit sneaky.
It devastates me to think of my children not living with their dad too.
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choccywoccywoowah · 02/07/2015 20:47
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