Thank you to anyone that replies, I need honest opinions.
I had an abusive childhood but was a good daughter, have a DBro and DSis, they escaped totally unscathed, DBro still lives at home, he is 42, DS is constantly at the 'family home'. I have married and had DD (7) and live abroad.
My parents have been N/C with me since they refused to come to my wedding (too expensive), at first, DSis & I were on the same page about what happened in childhood, since DD was born, I gradually realised more and morethat she is relaying every single aspect of my life/problems (the worse the better) back to my parents to their delight, I imagine. They don't have friends or go out, they like to sit around and gossip.
When DD was born I emailed my parents and asked if they wanted to meet her, I made several attempts. They simply didn't reply.
I have gone low contact with DSis as she has become increasingly odd towards me, this summer she showed DD a picture of my father and said 'this is your Grandpa', I was so upset. But couldn't make a big deal about it infront of DD. Little insiduous comments constantly which I know have come from my mother. She sort of feeds their hate, sounds so odd, but I am sure that is what she does.
DD phoned DSis on her birthday and told her about a big competition she had won. Two weeks later a friend emails me and asks me have I seen my fathers blog? (I had no idea he had one), he has copied all the photos of her winning this prize from the school website, photos of me and DH and put all our names, yet it is totally out of context and he has refused to meet DH and DD.
I am furious, utterly furious and find it so odd and hurtful.
I didn't know wether to post in AIBU, legal (is it legal to do this?) or here. I went for here, has anyone got any comments on the above, anything, I am doubting my own sense of reason here. I must add I am an intensely private person, I have no Facebook, twitter etc.
When I complained to my sister and asked her again why she had breached my trust/privacy and told my family these things she said I was evil and she never wanted to speak to me again.
Sorry for long post and thank you so much for reading.
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Toxic N/C family posting photos of DD on a blog. V upset.
jamaisdeux · 01/07/2015 18:08
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