I've posted a couple of threads about breaking up with a P who had MH problems. When i told him i was backing out of his life until he sorted himself out, i had hoped this would spur him into action. Sadly i haven't heard from him since (18 days - I'm still counting!).
By the end of our 'relationship' there were so many red flags & i was walking around with a knot in my stomach. He was verbally abusive, had withdrawn sexually & i had lost the connection with him.
I know i did the right thing, but i am obsessing over him. I literally cant stop ruminating the 'what ifs...' & the 'why?...'. It's affecting everything and I'm really trying. I have resisted the urge to contact him (which i feel ALL the time), but it's killing me :(.
Please tell me this will pass, that i did the right thing & i deserve better than someone who thought it was ok to storm out of my house whenever i said something he disagreed with, wouldn't text/phone, would fall asleep ALL the time & didn't want me sexually in the end.
sorry for posting again, but I'm really struggling.
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givemehopehelpmecope · 27/06/2015 18:04
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