last night my dh told me if I don't take responsibility for my role as a housewife, and accept life how it is then we are finished.
I find life really hard. I have a chronic illness, he doesn't support me as he should, and tonight has made me realise do I actually want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't support me emotionally. I am scared of going alone but I can't be with someone who won't even support me by not getting a cleaner because he thinks I can be 'lazy'.how the argument started. He has been with me for 16 years so should know how my illness affects me.
As I said the other day, I think he has had his head turned. He is not the man I used to know anymore and this is a way 'out'.
any advice shall I suggest a trial separation. Or just accept we have both changed, I do hate being at home, I hate relying on him, and his money and I think he sees it all as an insult, but he is pursuing his dream, his career, where what have I got I even had to give up my volunteering for a bloody treatment because it suppresses my immune system and I have only been doing that a year. And what if the treatment doesn't work as nothing else bloody has. I am waiting for information on counselling but I think it's too late. I am crying writing this.
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so upset.
IreallyKNOWiamright · 01/06/2015 05:23
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