I have been with my partner for 3 years. We live apart and have grown up children. He has a bad hip and as a result no interested in me sexually, despite my trying to talk about it and state that I am happy for intimacy with intercourse. He agrees, but has not touched me for months. We always take it in turns to pay when we are out and I always feel awkward as he comments on the price of everything. I have only ever eaten steak when its my turn to pay. I am starting to resent him as he is in my home most nights and this afternoon, due to my boiler playing up decided to light a fire, as I have no paper asked him if he had a £1 to buy one - he refused. I think I must be mad and worth more than this. He is a good man, but feel after he stormed out because of this, that maybe its time to call it a day. We went abroad last year, with family, 9 in total and I was embarrassed by his mean attitude. we have similar incomes, I am a home owner and he rents. Am I being selfish?
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