We have 2 young children, he works full time, I work part time. I attend a hobby twice a week, he attends a hobby once a week and likes to spend time with his mum or dad in the week.
Dcs also have hobbies which they need accompanying to and we frequently have visitors for dinner and to stay over.
We go out with friends approx once every couple of months and as a couple approx once a month when we can organise a babysitter.
Dh says I don't pay him enough attention and he feels unloved. I do love him and enjoy spending time together but am frequently emotionally exhausted by children, work Etc. and he tends to take a back seat. I think I've lost sight of how to make him feel 'loved'.
He does his fair share of domestic stuff and we have a cleaner but I do the majority of child related stuff and tend to bear the emotional brunt of all things child related.
I'm not sure what other people's relationships are like and tend to think that this is just how it is when you have young children and busy lives.
How can we improve things?
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DH says he doesn't feel he gets enough attention and he's probably right.
Hottypotty · 28/05/2015 11:11
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