There's a guy called Paul that I've been volunteering with recently and feel that there might be a bit of a spark between us. ( This isn't the guy BTW that was overstepping the mark. He still likes me despite being told that I'm not interested.)
I see Paul in person every 1-2 weeks for volunteering and in the past couple of weeks Paul and I have been having a few Facebook chats finding out lots about each other. I think he asked me out via FB on Friday night but I was tired so I may have abruptly cut him off before we could sort something out. We were talking about arranging a sports night and then he said ....
"Great idea about sports night. Would have to find a sport that everyone can do. Bowling? I agree that the drinks are a bit boring. I went once, was just standing around chatting about nothing, should be a bit better organised. If my maternal granddad is anything to go by, I'm in luck. Should we go bowling at some point to find the perfect venue? ??"
I then said I would loved to but that I was tired and wished him a good night.
Sorry if I sound like a teenager but I'm pretty clueless. I'm next seeing Paul on Tuesday but I'm unlikely to be able to talk to him on my own. I realise that nothing may come of this but I have a tendency to friendzone myself with guys I actually like! So any tips on what I should do now would be appreciated.
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Don't want to be friendzoned - what do I do next?
DollyRocker1 · 25/05/2015 08:57
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