THINKING OF YOURSELF

[Leadweight]

You are much better now. Yay. But your children, your ex, the grandparents , your friends etc etc are all worse off for your selfish decision. Well done mumsnet
. You destroyed so many lives just to conserve one of your own. Well done.

[AuntyMag10]

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[Joysmum]

Are you the ex?

[BettyCatKitten]

Can you enlighten us?

[Gilrack]

I'm rather pleased we managed to conserve a life. Thanks for letting us know.

It would seem you think that if a woman's partner & other people want her to sacrifice herself or her life, she should make the sacrifice. I'm not sure why you would think that's reasonable.

[FlabulousChix]

I'm sure the children are much happier now their mother is. You wouldn't be blameless and if you can't admit you were at fault you would never have changed

[flora717]

You destroyed so many lives just to conserve one of your own. Well done.

If a life, an actual life needed "conserving", against the emotional upheaval of any sort of split; I am fairly sure most people would favour the option where everyone makes it out alive.

Also. I don't see posters here being pushed towards ideas or conclusions that were not their own.

OP, you appear to be very angry or possibly very upset. Perhaps both. There are a variety of people who have experienced all sorts of traumatic events here. Do you want support? Are you needing to vent?

[Leadweight]

Hi flora. I think I'm in need of support.

[winterland]

what has happened?

[flora717]

I missed you there in my need to sleep. Perhaps you could try to give some more information.

[Baconontomato]

OP are you ok?