Says it all in the title really.
My dp won't accept that stress plays a part (his job hardly helps).
He has always had erection problems and cannot ejeculate during sex...he loses his erection. Getting an erection takes time and manual stimulation from me. He can come when he masterbates but even that is a struggle. He said he often can't feel much during sex and gets very disappointed if he doesn't last long.
He went to the drs and has had blood tests. First said testosterone was a bit low...second said it was ok. He doesn't believe this. He thinks there is something majorly wrong with him and he just wants to be "normal". Doc has given him viagra. Twice was fine I.e. he got an erection and had sex for a time period he was satisfied with. Last night was shorter (he says 5 mins...was actually about 10) and he fell apart saying that he can't even get a decent lasting erection with viagra and that it was all going to just get worse.
I am worried about him. He doesn't believe anything positive I say. I did say that it is easy to be negative about things because then you aren't let down...being positive is harder. And he is a very pessimistic person (which is hard work tbh).
Is there anything dietary that could help? He doesn't drink or smoke but does drink a lot of coke. Any recommendations of ways to help him out of this cycle of depression?
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lovesleep2 · 21/05/2015 09:01
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