I am 71.
I my life has been such sadness and loss since childhood.
But, I became a successful businesswomen, with everything going well.
BUT, here's the big but.
What can I say to my dd and ds who are becoming at difficult crossroads in their lives.
My dd is 52. Through circumstances beyond her control she moved to Canada a few years ago.
Now with two (student)adult sons who are settled there, my dd is homesick, desperate to return to Europe, but feels trapped as her dc will stay in canada.
dd hates the long cold winters, bearable when the ds were young, but now has the added sadness of them leaving home (and her feeling so alone).
Through yet again circumstances beyond his control, DS, DD's brother also moved to Canada , with DD three years ago.
But due to immigration issues, DS has to return to the uk soon, which DD finds even more difficult as they have been together for so long.
DS has no funds even to rent a place here, no credit history etc, so I don't know what he will do.
So, kind people what can I say to a tearful DD , if she leaves Canada and comes back with DS ,the only contact she will have with her DC is Skype/emails etc.
It's taking empty nesters to another level.
Basically DD doesn't want to stay, but doesn't want to leave.
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sadnessforher · 19/05/2015 10:56
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