My sister lives the other end of the country so we see eachother maybe once a year. There has been a major family fall out in the past few years and none of us had much contact during that time. However, this sister and I really discussed everything about our relationship and both agreed we felt reconnected. However, she will ignore my messages on fb for 2 weeks at a time meanwhile 'liking' my posts, I find this odd, why not reply to a message which usually just asks how's life etc? She never contacts me first and I sometimes message her to say does she want to skype and she'll even ignore that for weeks on end while chatting on fb to other people.
The irony is that if I arrange to skype her and I am even a few minutes late she sends me huffy messages. She has anxiety and in the past had a drug/alcohol problem. I find it so difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone who plays cat and mouse so much. She plays games in her other relationships and I wonder if she is here. I'm not sure what to do, I once asked her why she ignored my messages and she completely lost it saying she can do what the hell she likes
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what does someone do with a sister like this?
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saltnpepa · 17/05/2015 17:44
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