Hi everyone! I hope you don't mind me coming online to ask for some advice.
A month ago me and my bf of 7 months had split up and I'm finding it hard to get over him or stop missing him.
Things were great at the start then a few months down the line we had problems. I'm 29 he is 8 years older than me and I was his first girlfriend. I work full time and he is self employed. I suppose to be honest after a while this annoyed me that I would be hard at work and his job seemed so easy he had the time to go drinking with his friends every odd day.
The last straw came when I only had the weekend off and he was hungover on both days. Like I wasn't a priority to him. He seemed like he could live on his own and see his mates all the time. He said I was needy which I suppose I am in a way. I like to be shown affection it's not the worst thing in the world I think.
After breaking up we tried to be friends but it didn't work. He kept saying we're both single and friends and so soon after the breakup it felt like a knife in the heart. So we have tried again recently. I'm having to bite my tounge pretending I'm happy with that and not wanting more. Yesterday he said he was happier now single than with me in a relationship as it didn't work.
Am I just kidding myself here?
Sorry for the long rant I would just like a fresh opinion.
Thank you x
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tifalockheart25 · 02/05/2015 08:29
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