I can't prove that she has this time but I know in my heart she has.
She is 13 and going through a difficult time at the moment. She is lying about seeing some one who is 16 next month she looked her dm and me straight in the eye and lied about it. She is in trouble at school also.
Today she called round after drama on Tuesday night of fighting with her mum to run away - which she did but her dm found her and at her new 'friends' and took her home. She swore blind to me she has avoided her friend in school.
This afternoon she was upstairs with dd (2years) in my bedroom. I shouted them
Both down . When niece left I went upstairs and noticed an item missing worth around a tenner. It was brand new.
Phoned sil and she told me that she had gotten on to dn facebook and read her messages and she has been going to 'friends' house at 3am in the morning, the messages also proved they were not just friends. They also laughed about the excuses Dn had given.I told her about missing item but to be honest it's the least of her problems.
SIL is at a loss what to do. She is raging at the moment. Dn doesn't know her mum has seen messages as she is barred from it and internet.
I've just had to stop sil from driving round to 'friends' house and to try and calm her self down so she can get a plan together and try and sort this mess out.
So back to my small problem. How to deal with theft. She stole money last year also. She is supposed to be coming here tomoro again and on Saturday I'm supposed to be taking her out for lunch and a wander round town.
I don't want to alienate her as she hasn't got much family but I cant have her stealing from my home. DP was annoyed last time and he will not want her here again.
at a real loss how to help or deal with it
Any advice welcome
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Niece has been stealing from me......again.
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Fedupfrankie · 30/04/2015 19:49
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