I need to go NC with dsis....but, she lives nearby, shops where I do, often walks past my house to visit a relative and is just generally always around.
Unfortunately she's as toxic as they come and has really been horrifically so the last few months and the last fortnight has been in particular dreadful with her antics.
She's always been what I would call an attention seeker, and has always tried to compete with me/outdo me etc which I was able to ignore. She then started trying to ruin things for me and being a complete pain.
A few months ago whilst at my house one day she went through some letters and disclosed private info about us having ivf to all our family and friends and I was devastated. I postponed it to avoid feeling as if everybody was wondering had it worked etc and we began our cycle a couple of weeks ago. Dsis has been hateful, she at first said she was ill and kept wanting favours from family/friends, she kept asking where was I going/had I been if she saw me. Ifelt quite ill so she guessed what was going on. She then pretended for some reason she had gone on holiday (?) then turned up unannounced and thought it was funny that everyone was a bit
She then decided to text me all the time as to what was going on and begged to come with me to appts but I said no as dh was coming, she was angry. Then I was given a list of babynames that she wants to use one day and she started telling DM that various toys from our childhood, the old crib etc we slept in were hers??
I had my egg collection yesterday and got a horrible text from dsis today saying "hope it doesn't work" wtf??? I've spent the last half an hour crying, I'm hormonal anyway and I don't understand her.
DM thinks we should just "put up with her ways for a quiet life" but I can't. Just not sure how to go NC when I bump into her every couple of days.i just don't want to see her nasty vindictive face ever again.
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Edenviolet · 27/04/2015 18:59
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