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anyone ever feel like they are at the bottom of the pile

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lastqueenofscotland · 25/04/2015 19:21

I'm never expecting to be number 1 but feel like i come below all of
work
OH family
friends
hobbies

I have a strict running schedule that i get very pissed off if anyone meddles with haha, but I frequently find myself joining him on business trips just to get to spend some time together and i am pissed.off. about it.
Oh and what is it about grown men acting like pathetic teenage boys when they are in a group, i despise the person he is when he's with his friends.

Just wanted a moan!

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IAmAShitHotLawyer · 25/04/2015 22:35

i'm sorry you feel like the bottom of his list of priorities and it does look as though he puts everything else before you.

I have been single and dating for 4 years and am no youngster but I have a rule that I stick by.

I accept that if a man has kids then they are his number 1 priority. Fine. No problem there. BUT - i'm next! Not work, golf, extended family, ex wife blah blah blah. ME.

How long have you been together? Has he always been like this.

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MelonBallersAreStrange · 25/04/2015 23:04

You being bottom of his priority list is only a problem if he is top of yours. Move him down your list.

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