I have recently handed in my final piece of uni work after and intensely heavy work load training to be a primary school teacher.
I was offered a job by my dream school and started there 2 weeks ago.
The work load is insane, I have been waking at 6:30 coming home from school at 6 then working until half eleven at night and I still have loads that I haven't managed to get done.
It was kind of a dream come true but the reality is that Im always tired, stressed and dreaming about school in my sleep.
My husband is patiently just getting on with jobs around the house as we have just recently moved but I don't even get time to watch a tv show with him at the moment.
Today I got in from work and we had our first blazing shouty, sweary argument in ages, over the fact that it's his daughters birthday tomorrow and I wanted to move lots of the clutter out of the dining room which he objected to so now we're not talking.
I feel like there's nothing left for me at the end of a busy week but putting on a birthday tea for his daughter (which I will have to go food shopping for because he has bought no more than one packet of cocktail sausages, an unripe pineapple and some mini chocolate chip muffins.
I just feel like all the expectation to make it lovely is on me.
Tonight step daughters mother came round and I could hear her, DSD ad DH on the sofa all having a giggle and as usual I just felt like this ghost in the back ground assembling a spiral staircase cake stand that I'd bought for DSD for tomorrow.
It's at times like this that I just want to start a fresh, leave my job, leave all the situations where I am under appreciated and don't feel good enough and just move away.
I was already burnt out when I handed my dissertation in last week and now after 2 weeks of my new job I feel even worse.
Sorry this seems to have turned into a rant I just feels sad and angry.
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working so much my relationship's being neglected :(
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avocadosarentmiddleclassed · 24/04/2015 19:43
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