I have had my first thread deleted this morning, because I posted too much identifying information and disclosed far too much detail about my plans. However the support I have received so far has been amazing, and I have such a long way to go still.
The story so far: I discovered at the weekend my husband has been having an on/off affair for the last 6 months. He finished it before I discovered the evidence because he had decided to choose me over her.
I have been utterly devastated by this. In my anger I have taken the practical steps I need in order to help secure my long term future (I think).
My final practical step will be to get our home back for dd and me for a while. And then let the dust settle and figure out how to rebuild or recreate my life. With minimal collateral damage to dd.
Please keep holding my hand.
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Husband's affair: I have started!
tomatoplantproject · 23/04/2015 16:00
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