Hi,
Have NC for this as he reads my posts.
I went to a wedding with my partner recently and we were drinking free booze all day and all evening.
At about 9pm I was worse for wear and took myself quietly off to our hotel room and passed out on the bed drunk.
Later my partner came in and I was woken up by my bag crashing against the wall because he threw it across the room in a temper.
I don't remember much about what he said that night but the next morning he called me the following:
A scrounger
A cun*lodger (his female equivalent to cocklodger, which by the way, he finds offensive and "manhating")
A f*king drunken slag who loves sucking men's c*ks
A fking disgrace who he does not wish to be seen in public with again
Trash
A headfk who he should get rid of
With hindsight I should have left and travelled back home on public transport but I had friends coming to stay and I figured that the fastest way to get home to meet them would be to just go home with him in his car, as I don't drive.
And because I was so stunned at this outburst I honestly didn't know what to say or how to respond.
He is about 500 times wealthier than I am but I frequently offer to pay for rounds of drinks and take him out and pay for the odd meal to show him I appreciate him. He told me I am the only woman he has met in a long time who offers to pay for things and that he has in the past attracted gold-diggers.
I don't particularly enjoy carrying out the aforementioned sex act either, I just pretend to So at least that must have worked!
I have brought up the "scrounging drunken slag" issue and said I'd like to discuss it, but he's said "Can we discuss it some other time, not now?", to which I've acquiesced.
However, the subject came up again yesterday and the discussion became heated and he stormed off in a huff. then he rang me a short time later to say he wanted to come back round to get his things out of my flat and I said "Okay".
So I wrote the following on a piece of paper and put it in his toiletry bag:
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fedupwithbeingill1970 · 29/03/2015 18:23
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