This isn't going to be short but a very, very brief version is 'I really love this girl, her friend told me some stuff and I don't think it's ever going to work'
Here's the long one
So, I'm posting here again after last time. I received some great support and I really apreciate it!
So, me and this girl have known each other for 5+ years. I'm madly in love with her. She was my first love and she is my current. I couldn't think of anyone I'd rarther do just about anything with but her.
So, we dated about 4 years ago for 1 year. It was great but we were much younger, so it's not much to do with this.
So her new boyfriend (just after me) of 3 years, what a dk. If I'm honest with you I think he's her first love. It kills me to say that but I think it's true.
So recently they broke up and me and her have been getting much closer. Before I go into more detail of that I must add nearly exactly a year ago around this time we started to see each other again when her and her new guy went on a break and everything went great, the feeling came rushing back to me again. But he came back into the picture and I got fked over.
Now, like I said. Me and her have become a lot closer in the last 3 months and she recently split with her other half (1 month ago). She stays at mine at least once a week, we cuddle and act like a couple but we're not and we both know it. She came on a very long drive with just me and her to see about 12 of my family members she's never met and she was fine with it, they even thought we were together.
Now, I met her friend today for a chat and apparently she's been saying I try to hard and she'll never see me as anymore that a friend and she will never do for me what I do for her. Now, her friend tends to make A LOT of things up, she's known for it and this girl has a thing for me.
But then again I might try a little hard, I bought her flowers, massive Easter eggs, meals out in amazing places, I paid to have her hair done, random texts for the morning and night. Everything I could. I never get any of that from her. Not even as Easter egg. Sounds pathetic but put it into justification.
Now, what I'm asking is what do I do next? I really love this girl. I know I do. I DO NOT want to break anything off with her. I cannot lose her again. But I also don't want to tell her how I feel because I'm 85% sure she doesn't feel the same way and I don't want to keep it how it is because she'll talk to other guys, she'll 'friend zone' Me etc. so what do I do?
Thank you for reading everyone,
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Johndoe21 · 29/03/2015 02:28
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