My d/h is perfect. He loves me unreservedly and tells me so. He supports me, buys me gifts and lets me be as independent as I want to be. We have a great life. My children think we are fantastic together.
We haven't had sex for nearly three years. We sleep separately. He respects that and won't push. He says he'd rather spend the rest of his life like this than divorce as long as I don't sleep with anyone else.
I dream every day of leaving. I think I'm being unfair to him to stay when I no longer want to sleep with him. I love him as my friend.
Leaving would devastate everyone.
I have no reason to leave except for being unhappy.
I have had counselling. It didn't help.
I can't tell him or my children. I'm good at hiding it.
I have absolutely no idea what I'm asking for. To leave would hurt everyone. To stay hurts me.
I feel lost.
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Leaving would be selfish
Onesqueakywheel · 28/03/2015 01:02
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