And I would be grateful for some perspective. It's late and everything seems worse than it probably is...
I just had a night out with some old friends.Difficult to arrange as lots of childcare to sort out for all concerned etc etc, the usual.
Came home at 1120 to find DP with a face like a bulldog chewing a bag of wasps. He said he was "very annoyed" I was so late, wouldn't engage, just stared intently at his phone. I'd texted him from train a half hour earlier to say I was homeward bound and all well. No response so I presumed he was asleep!
His beef is we are going away tomorrow (late arvo) and I'd apparently "left him to do everything". If I had, I could well understand he would be cross. But not so. I washed/dried/packed/arranged stuff yesterday because I knew this evening was going to be a write off.
He got cross, I blew up and told him that given I'm an adult I wasn't aware I needed to seek his permission to stay out till a fairly normal going-out-type hour and I've left him to his epic sulk.
This is not the first time he's let rip unreasonably. In the grand scheme of things I'm awsre this is a minor thing but honestly I feel I've had enough. Life is too short for this crap. It's not me, right??
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I think I just passed the point of no return...
Needperspectivenow · 27/03/2015 00:51
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