Been with bf 3 years! First year had lots of sex and was to turned on straight away (new partner, fancy etc) that the fact we never had foreplay didn't matter and I could come very easily!
Things started to slow down after then as they do and the sex slowed down and I started to find it harder to cum!
I then got pregnant and we didn't have sex for the whole pregnancy (his choice) and since baby has been born 7 months ago we have only had two failed attempts and he couldn't maintain a erection.
We have had quite a few relationship issues and despite this we still love/fancy each other and want to get back in track!
So I want to bring up the sex issues as in his lack of interest and if I do try it on with him in bed all I get is a "oh I'm tried but I will try" and just sticks it straight in!
Sex is very important to me and I enjoy it, I want kissing, touching, oral etc.
How do I say these things to him without making him feel bad or causing more issues with the erectile disfunction etc?
Frankly we are over the honeymoon period now and I need warming up a little
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How do I bring up lack of foreplay without hurting his feelings?
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NCtotalkaboutsex · 26/03/2015 18:56
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