Sorry can't link to previous posts but DH moved out a month ago today. After years of EA I finally saw the light. He wanted it to be temporary and I thought there was a slim chance of that.
He was distraught when he left, crying, pleading. It was torture seeing him like that.
He was like it the first two weeks even in front of the DC. Then he seemed to get better. Tonight he was much worse. Holding onto ME at the front door and crying. He even asked if he could take my jumper with him as it smelled of me and he could take it to bed with him.
I'm not sure if he's genuinely upset or if this is all a big act. He's seeing a counsellor who keeps telling him our marriage is fixable. I don't think this is helping. He's lost a lot of weight in the month, he looks ill and exhausted and I am so sad.
I don't know how to help him deal with this. The only thing he wants is for me to tell him to come back and I just can't do that.
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The crying and the begging....
Toastandstrawberryjam · 04/03/2015 00:03
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