It's been a long time coming. We've split up briefly before but I've given up all hope of things getting better.
He's like another dc. Sits in the living room on his phone/laptop disengaged from the dc or I. I've given him jobs but he choses not to do them.
I'm exhausted. Mentally I'm in a really bad place so I'm questioning my own judgement. I'm terrified of being on my own but I'm more terrified of spending another 16 years like this.
I've no friends or family. 4 dc Youngest is 12 months old. 2 of the dc have SNs & are very difficult & challenging.
How will I get through this horrible awkward stage? He's no family. He has friends but they've no space. It's all so difficult! Any advice appreciated.
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Levismum · 02/03/2015 00:56
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