This is probably going to sound unhinged, but I was wondering if any other Stately Homes or NC people are experiencing the same.
(I'm not NC with my parents but it's not out of the question; we're definitely a Stately Home-type family though.)
I recently turned the age my mum was when she had me, and I've noticed over the last 6-12 months that I'm started to really resemble her. It's as if my own face is now the one I see instead of hers in my baby photos, you know? Before, you could see the family resemblance, but now I actually look like her and it's making me freak out.
Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? I'm not above considering getting a facelift or similar to take away the close resemblance.
I know, logically, that I am not my mother and that we're different people; and that because I'm aware of how awful she is that I'm not likely to turn into her (oh god I hope not). Logically, I know that. But emotionally? Every time i look in the mirror I see her.
Can anyone relate? How do you cope?
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coffeeslave · 27/02/2015 14:29
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