I've name hanged for this because I'm a bit embarrassed!
Currently having an argument with my dh. He is very cross because I refused to have sex with him while we were away and staying in the same room as our dcs (5yrs and 2yrs). I just felt that it wasn't appropriate and that my five year old is much too aware of things and shouldn't be exposed to this. He feels it was fine because it was pitch black and she was across the room.
He thinks there is no difference to doing it in the same room and in a tent (he's threatening to cancel our hols because we are camping for ten days in the summer). We have a big tent which is compartmented off. His argument is that its about the same space as the room as we were in and so the same kind of privacy. I am saying that the compartments (zipped up) give a lot more privacy.
The problem is we do end up sleeping in the same room on quite a few nights away and so he feels I'm being unreasonable with this rule. I have said that it's more about my feelings than anything else and if I don't feel comfortable he should respect that.
What do people think? Maybe I should have posted in aibu?!
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Bitconfused123 · 19/02/2015 14:40
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