Dh and I have been married for about 5 years. We were very romantic and passionate in the beginning but our relationship has declined drastically due to MIL issues. dh has started to bring it up more frequently that may be by next year or so we could have a baby. I'm 31 and he is 34. I'm going minimal contact with MIL. She forces herself into our lives (guilt trip husband) and I feel like having a baby will bring new issues into our marriage. He keeps saying that it will get more difficult if I keep delaying it but I feel like I will be so much more vulnerable with a baby. She is very keen to become a grand mother, keeps telling dh who else had a baby in their extended family and keeps asking him about his friends have children. I want a baby too but get cold feet. Not sure I'm asking a question, just wanted to post it.
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