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Birthday Blues!! Sons first birthday

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gg1234 · 31/01/2015 12:44

Hi ALL,

We have been confused whether to celebrate or not my sons first .We have already celebrated in my country earlier .But now people and myfrds here are questioning y are you not celebrating .I have couple ofthings in hand I have recently started my new job and its a lot of pressure I ahve to see whether I will perform or not see and give direction to my career for heaven sake and if nothing works out do some courses .So alot on my plate .What should I say ? My parents too are very very nagging they say its not fair .Is it ?
Am I being selfish

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lillybee1 · 31/01/2015 12:47

Could you do something little to celebrate - go for a meal out or something that doesn't involve too much effort so the rest of the family can be part of the celebration too?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 31/01/2015 13:39

I don't understand. When is/was his birthday? 'Celebrating' a first birthday usually involves a cursory cake and a few photos. Is that what your parents would like? Would that be so terrible?

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IAmAShitHotLawyer · 31/01/2015 14:01

Yes, surely its just tea, cake and photos isn't it?

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outtahell · 31/01/2015 15:21

You've already celebrated your son's birthday and now people who weren't there are moaning about it? Let them moan, not your problem. You don't want to set the precedent of 2+ Xmas days, birthdays every time some relative/friend can't make it. Print off some photos for people and for future celebrations maybe a birthday skype session with the closest relatives.

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