We told our DDs (6 & 8) that we were separating last night. 6 yo is totally nonplussed, but 8 yo keeps asking why we're breaking up. My pat answer about just not loving eachother enough is not cutting it..
The real answer is DP has struggled with depression/anxiety for years, we're completely different people and are fundamentally wrong for eachother, but obviously that explanation won't help a child.
It must be doubly difficult for her because we're being so lovely and nice to eachother at the moment - he is even helping me move all my stuff into my new rented house - so she is completely confused.
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8yo keeps asking 'but why are you splitting up, Mummy?' Please give me the words..
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Runbayou · 29/01/2015 22:07
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