I have posted a few times - always helpful advice:) I have a rubbish arrangement with (emotionally abusive and a bully) ex h for when he sees the dcs,it's basicly whichever weekend day suits him and he is supposed to advise me each week, some weeks I don't know until the thursday and often he doesn't see them either day. He refuses to comit to anything due to his work. Last time he saw dcs we agreed on dates for this weekend - he didn't turn up yesterday, I know he said yesterday. Have emailed him advising that we were there yesterday but he wasn't, told him children now busy today and now next weekend. Have suggested he emails me confirmation of when he would like dcs each week. Obviously it's my fault, he understood they busy yesterday and free today. That's not what was agreed, I know it wasn't yet I am left doubting myself and considering changing our plans for him:( I hate all this, this is why I wanted a more definite arrangement, to avoid a situation like this, but he won't have it:( any advice appreciated
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