Just pondering. I don't think I've ever had a truly equal relationship where both parties reciprocated evenly. I have also had some very similar relationships which were very intense and quickly extinguished.
Why does this happen? If you've had one abusive relationship, it seems you are more likely to have another. Others attract players and liars. Some people seem to walk into a relationship that is perfect for them. It doesn't seem to be to do with physical appearance - more high self esteem perhaps?
I am not asking this for myself, at least not yet, as I'm taking time away from dating. But I suppose, deep down, I feel I don't have what it takes to build a successful, happy relationship. I wonder what it is that makes people repeat negative relationship patterns over and over.
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why do some people repeat the same patterns in relationships?
dontcallnotdating · 24/01/2015 19:27
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