I don't really know how to deal the situation I'm in. My partner shouts at me every morning when he can't find things to wear. He is late to everything as a result.
I have been a sahm and have helped him in the past by laying out clothes including the sports gear he wears, but it is usually wrong. I am working fulltime now and luckily I've left the house by the time this situation arises in the morning during the week. It ruins my weekend though, and just keeps repeating.
I have stood up to him about it as well and told him to sort himself out but it doesn't seem to work. He shouts and throws things around the house quite often. My children disappear to their bedrooms when he's like this.
I dont like this behaviour and its being going on for years. I feel tearful and stressed and have a tight chest.
He never apologises for his behaviour and he often blames me for his lateness at work. We both work for the same company so I find it really embarrassing.
I am a very organised person, however we dont have any proper storage in our house as my partner hasnt completed the storage that he started a year ago. I have gone back to work so that I can provide more things for my family, as I cant wait any longer for my partner to sort things out. We havent had a working shower for 10 years for instance, and I havent had any money to get things fixed. Sorry for the rant, im really stressed out.
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Melanietree · 22/12/2014 09:35
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