Please excuse me if any of this sounds callous, I'm trying to be practical and not get emotional until I have some time to myself.
I've worked for a lady on and off as a nanny for her small children, started when they were babies and they re school age now. I don't officially work for her anymore but I'm always at her house when she needs me, which is quite a lot. She has no close family and not many friends who aren't busy with their own children so I've become like a surrogate aunt to her children.
This year was a tough year for her, her husband was diagnosed with cancer and subsequently took a big back seat with the chilldcare. She had to give up her business and sell her equipment to a competitor. Her elderly father has been difficult for a while and makes a lot of demands on her time, and the children are going through a difficult phase. To top all of this off, I'm less available now because i have a new job and I'm freelancing with another and i have less time to give her. I also live very far away.
I arrived at the house to bri ng the children to the cinema like we had planned a while ago and was told she tried to commit suicide and is being held in a psychiatric ward for the time being. That's all ive been told. I took the kids out for the day to give their dad some peace and I'm staying here. He asked me to stay for a few days. I was supposed to go home tomorrow for Christmas. I don't know what to tell my family or how long they need me here.
Practically, I'm not sure what to do. Can anyone advise me on this please?
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Employer attempted suicide... not sure what to do.
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Freakingthefeckout · 21/12/2014 21:25
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