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Are you all single men haters?

121 replies

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:20

It seems that all the advice on almost every thread is saying leave the bastard do u all hate men?

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EhricJinglingHisBallsOnHigh · 19/12/2014 14:22

Yep. All single and all man haters.

BolshierAyraStark · 19/12/2014 14:24

Nope married to a man & have a son so quite like men-simply dislike wankers who treat others like shit.

HTH

oswellkettleblack · 19/12/2014 14:24

I am actually a hairy-handed trucker who will always tell a person who is with an abusive, cheating fuckwit to leave.

ShumbTucker · 19/12/2014 14:24

Married.
Feminist.
Hairy.
Man hater.
Fun sucker.
Bitter.
Twisted.
Harpie.
Whore.
Po Faced.

I think Ive just about covered us here....

colafrosties · 19/12/2014 14:25

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hellsbellsmelons · 19/12/2014 14:25

I don't hate ALL men.
I have a fabulous partner, a man who I love.
My dad is the loveliest man you could ever wish to meet.
My nephew is great as are my BILs.
My ExH, the lying cheating scumbag - not so much!

mumonashoestring · 19/12/2014 14:26

You think I'm harsh? You should hear what my DH has to say about some of the pig-ignorant fucknuckles that drive their wives and partners to post despairing threads on here...

TheHermitCrab · 19/12/2014 14:27

Maybe it's because the women with great men in their lives don't need to come here and ask for advice.

"my man is so amazing, what do I do?" Well of course you leave the bastard ;)

PeachyTheSanctiMoanyArse · 19/12/2014 14:28

Married (14 years) mother of four sons, feminist (and have raised sons to be) neither man nor women hater, just hate bigotry and nastiness of all kinds including that aimed at women.

SnakeyMcBadass · 19/12/2014 14:28

Yeah. Particularly the disingenuous ones.

TheWindowDonkey · 19/12/2014 14:29

No, we are all hairy truckers, I thought we had established that aeons ago?

PeachyTheSanctiMoanyArse · 19/12/2014 14:29

And yes, every now and then I read a post to DH to see if it's be being mean and judgemental or that the poster does happen to have a twat on her hands.

Dh confirms it is the twat factor.

LoisChristmasPuddingLane · 19/12/2014 14:30

Hairy non-trucker here.

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 19/12/2014 14:30

Yes I hate all single men. Once they're in a relationship they suddenly become fine Xmas Hmm

dadwood · 19/12/2014 14:32

I'm a man

Most LTB comments here seem reasonable to me, there are some really bad relationships out there which are ultimately destructive for both partners.

dirtybadger · 19/12/2014 14:32

Mumsnet is made up entirely of man hating lesbians. Putin's #1 fiscal policy is to overthrow mumsnet.

Seriously though my cat is a lad and I love him. He has been neutered though so I dont know if that counts. Both my sisters guinea pigs are chaps though and they're unaltered. They're brilliant blokes.

AMumInScotland · 19/12/2014 14:34

Yeah, we're all hariy handed truckers here. You too I'm guessing?

JeanneDeMontbaston · 19/12/2014 14:34

Just checking in, hating the men.

OP, what's the word 'you' ever done to you?

MrsPepperMintonCandyCane · 19/12/2014 14:34

Hairy truckers wife here. Twenty two years together and two DS. I only hate men who hate women. Oh and goady people male or female. HTH.

BriarRainbowshimmer · 19/12/2014 14:35

I'm a bit confused OP do we like or hate single men here?

WhyTheFace · 19/12/2014 14:35

I hate everyone

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:35

As hermit says its most likely because women with great men don't need to come here

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kaykayred · 19/12/2014 14:36

I think most of us hate PEOPLE who are lazy, entitled, abusive, dismissive, cheating or in any other way massive pieces of shit that are making someone else's life miserable.

It's just that most people posting about their partners who fit the above description happen to be heterosexual women.

But by all means...if you are unable to wrap your head around the concept that women don't need to "put up with" being treated like crap in relationships, then you can blame it on women being "man haters".

Jesus. What a knob.

PS, I think most of the women on this part of the forum are married, not that it should make any difference. Not all of course, but the majority.

TheHermitCrab · 19/12/2014 14:37

I have a great man (sometimes ;) ) but I don't come here for advice about him. I've got enough of my own opinions on him to last a lifetime lol.

Lacoba66 · 19/12/2014 14:37

OP, perhaps your are very selective of which threads you read, or do you have any actual figures to back up your original statement?

I personally don't think its a case of being "men haters" it's distaste and dislike of certain behaviour, whether that be by a male or female.

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