Had a big argument with dp tonight.
Background -relationship not good for a while, under a lot of financial pressure as dp trying to finish overrun phd, and we have 17month old ds.
I am feeling like I'm cracking under the strain- looking after ds alone 5.5 days a week, also working (self employed) to earn 3/4 of our living expenses (in London), also sole responsibility for all household stuff. Expressed this to dp tonight, also said some harsh things like I felt she wasn't prioritising me and ds and was beig self centred and narcissistic. She got very angry and threw her phone hard at me which I think will leave a bruise. I don't know how seriously to take this. I grew up with a father who has similar occasional outbursts. My mother always minimised it. I don't know how to respond to this.
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Solidaritywolf · 27/11/2014 21:52
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