I have posted a couple of times before here and I'm afraid to say that I am still with him, still trying to get my head together.
Everything has been calm for the last couple of months, but I don't know how long it will last, or if he has truly changed.
I think the question I keep coming back to is whether or not it is possible to re-build trust in someone after it has gone? Or once trust has been broken, is it gone forever? I don't know if I will ever feel truly comfortable with him again, but is that enough reason to destroy my children's family? (Obviously if his abusive behaviour started again that would be different. I have promised myself that there will be no more second chances and this time I really mean it).
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snowflake02 · 25/10/2014 20:57
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