I've recently started a new role in a predominantly male environment. DH and I have had our moments but I'd like to think our marriage is strong...however I've noticed I've started to develop strange crushes on colleagues where my head thinks they fancy me. They are all much older than me but there is something about them that makes me fantasise about them and want them to pursue an affair with me
One of my crushes I'm working closely with recently gave me a hug after one meeting, which I thought was a bit strange and then the other night, randomly rang me to talk about work and explain how he didn't clearly understand my role and wants to help me with the project as he'd like to get to know me more.
My other crush is my manager who again seems inappropriate at times and last night insisted after a tough day that I join him and colleagues for drinks. Thankfully my female friend joined me as I felt uneasy, but on the other hand I wanted to be on my own with him.
My head is reading too much into all this and good to express here but I'm thinking of telling DH about these crushes and their behaviours as I think it will help? Do you think it's a good idea? I feel like I'm back in school with these feelings do they like me/ do I like them? Just want these feelings to go! Looking back at this it looks a little crazy but I need some clear thinking and advice. Thanks.
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Work crush should I tell DH
Choochonu · 25/10/2014 10:48
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