I am stuck indoors recovering from broken back and with broken foot. I am sooo bored! Depressed. Angry!
My bf has possible Aspergers syndrome (soon to be assessed).
When I recently broke my back - few allowances were made for my condition.
This last fortnight he has spent more time online than looking at/talking with me when he has been at home. I have been left with the devil's share of housework and childcare - no allowances for health. When I have tackled him about it he has pulled out every blame-shifting trick in the book. I find myself silently fuming.
I have raised with him that I am unable to go out of the house at the moment and that I feel lonely and bored - in one ear and out the other it seems.
Tonight he went out with friends (spontaneously -on way home from work) and returned at around 7pm -drunk. Tried to come onto me - and was rebuffed. He is now snoring his head off to the point where we can't share a bed (he has anti-snoring devices on his bedside cabinet). And I am alone again.
I am using my hands to write so that I do not order take - away and comfort eat.
I want to go upstairs and wake him up and give him what for - but I know this will not make anything any better - he scores minimally )e.g 1/2 out of 50 for empathy scores on diagnosis tools.
I just don't know if I can do this anymore. But I feel trapped because my health is not set to improve for at least the next 18 months and I am currently unemployed.
a chat would be nice....
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Don't Think I Have Ever Felt So Lonely! Angry! Bored!
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GirlInASwirl · 24/10/2014 22:22
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