hi everyone
just feeling so lost and confused, wondered if anyone else has been there.
married for 18 years and with what everyone thought was a 'great bloke'. he started acting weird in the spring and changed, a lot. I started feeling really suspicious that he was going out and had his mobile phone with him all the time. he said he needed freedom and to do his own thing, that's all. I tried to understand but it was such a shock and then he was lying about where he was and bunking off work, which was very out of character.
to cut a horrible story short, I kept asking him what was happening and trying to desperately think of ways to let him feel free and happy but had a pit in the stomach feeling that something else was going on. he said don't be stupid.
I broke into his phone and discovered everything I was thinking was happening. I was devastated and he said all they did was talk. she works with him and they met up secretly and text all the time. so I made him end it and after two months of us being really unhappy but trying to sort stuff I found out he'd been contacting her again.
how can I believe him and trust this person. please help
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my husband had emotional affair how can i trust him again
crochetfever · 22/10/2014 15:10
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