Hi,
I'm 33 y.o. with no children and in the process of finalising my divorce.
As soon as I'm finally divorced I want to start dating. I'm planning to actively do online dating and getting out on dates a lot to meet as many people as I can in person.
The thing is that what I really want is to find a man who is at the point of his life when he wants to settle down cause I want to have children and family as soon as possible really. I'm not interested in cohabitation or getting pregnant without the marriage.
I do realise the importance of feeling "chemistry" to someone but I also know that I can feel such chemistry to a man who doesn't want to get married yet.
I feel that I'm not prepared to risk dating someone for 2-3 years and then him finding all the reasons for avoiding the marriage.
I guess I'm looking for some opinions on what is the good way to go about when dating without looking too desperate or pushy about the fact that I'm looking for someone to marry and have a family within a year or two.
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bmw2508 · 21/10/2014 01:21
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