Hi I'm a divorced 25 -year-old woman (no dcs) and me and a group of friends often drink at a nearby pub where this guy that I really fancy also goes.
He is divorced too but about 15 years my senior (not that that matters), anyway, I got married young and have little dating experience outside of marriage.
He is quite touchy feely with me (kissed my hand once) and I think he likes me back but I just don't know.
Anyway, the other night the place was loud and I said 'hi' but he did not reply. A bit drunk and overemotional, I mentioned this to my friend and she told him, 'rockfolly's upset as you ignored her'. In retrospect, the place was loud and he probably didn't hear me but, stupid and drunk, I told my friend and she blabbed this.
I saw him on friday and he apologised for ignoring me. I said it was OK place loud etc and thought that was the end of it. However, last night he comes up to me and repeats the apology and saying that he would 'never ever ever ignore you' and really going on about it. I say it's OK and just to let it go.
Now I feel like an idiot as I must come over as egotistical and demanding but, worse, I still have no clue how he feels about me. Advice?
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Does this guy fancy me or am I just wishful thinking?
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rockfolly · 29/09/2014 12:10
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