I can't cope anymore, I don't even know where to start with the ridiculous situation I'm worrying about right now (for a while now) but it makes me feel sick and want to just crawl into a dark hole.
I have, most definitely a narc of a mil, who after moving away for a year is returning home.
We are just about to by our first house and she has ditched her plans of travelling 9 months of the year because she "misses my dd" and we will be living around the corner (only local ish place with good schools) I could have coped for 3 months of 12, but it's clear she plans to be heavily involved.
I'm not a nasty person, I'm not deluded, if usually encourage a healthy, loving relationship with my child's grandparents...but not with this woman.
She's been acting so sweet, no temper, no crying and emotion blackmail, no ridiculous demands and my dp who was so close to cutting them out because of their behaviour has suddenly forgot the hell they put us through, I feel like just because they went away for a year, all they did is forgotten and she expects to just walk back into our lives, demanding weekly visits, nagging to take dd alone, complaining about our weight, our lifestyle, my hair, my clothes, his clothes, out daughters clothes, his career, our daughters behaviour etc etc.
I can feel it all brewing, this good behaviour only occurs when she is about to make big demands.
It breaks my heart.
Makes me want to leave my dp and go home to my wonderful understanding, rational and supportive mother.
It's official, I hate my mother in law and she is going to ruin any bit of happiness we have managed to secure since her absence.
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Bambamboom · 27/09/2014 19:58
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