Before i end up being THAT person who rants away on FB.
STBXH took the DCs out for lunch. Was back around 2:30/3pm.
It's now 7:15pm and HE'S STILL FUCKING HERE.
First of all, fell asleep on the sofa snoring away.
I told him, if he's so tired, why doesn't he head home and get an early night.
"I'd like to stay and chill with the DC, if that's alright" says he.
I'm too weak to answer. Anything I say will be twisted. He is emotionally abusive, as far as I'm concerned, and very manipulative. He will turn the whole thing upside down. I've spent many years treading on eggshells around that man, and I'm STILL doing it.
At one point he was lying on the sofa, feet up on the arm, belching away. Disgusting, vile man.
I'm livid.
I want him to go. He's just making me incredibly uptight and ragey as I can't say anything, hence the reason I'm venting here.
What annoys me the most is, if I'd have known he'd be here all afternoon (and now evening), I could have gone out to see a friend or gone to see a film.
I've been hiding in my bedroom since they got back and managed to keep myself busy by cooking the DC's supper, cleaning up etc.
Why won't he JUST GO?
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Need a rant and a very large glass of wine please.
FrazzleRock · 21/09/2014 19:13
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